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Alumnae Association announces Kaffie White McCullough '67 as the 2006 Alumnae
Award Recipient.
A standout leader, scholar
and athlete at Wells, Kaffie White McCullough, class of 1967, is being
honore d
with the 2006 Wells College Alumnae Award for her service to Wells and
for her leadership work with young girls. Kaffie comes from a family of
bright, strong Wells women, including her grandmother, mother and aunt.
Kaffie graduated from Wells Phi Beta Kappa with a double major in Chemistry
and the History and Philosophy of Religion. Kaffie sang in the choir, was
active in student government including serving as class president her senior
year and, was an unparalleled athlete. A classmate recalled: “Kaffie
exuded strength in so many ways. As a college student, she was wise well
beyond her years, bright, able, open to everyone, honest and fair. I admired
her very much.”
Wells has always been a high
priority in Kaffie’s life, and as an alumna she has held a number of different
volunteer positions, including alumnae council delegate, class secretary,
class fund chair, Atlanta Wells Club officer, Alumnae Association Admissions
Representative and southeastern regional representative. For six years
she served as 1st Vice President of the Wells College Alumnae Association
and as Chair of its Nominating Committee.
A past President of the Alumnae
Association wrote, “As an Alumnae Board member, Kaffie could be counted
on to help in an executive capacity: to contribute to the development of
strategies, to take responsibility, to be accountable to work on tough
and often politically charged issues. Kaffie’s actions were always consistent
with her words. In a word, she had integrity.”
In 1999, the 125th anniversary
of Wells College Alumnae Association, Kaffie was instrumental in designing
something she called intergenerational workshops. A past Wells Trustee
wrote “Kaffie contributed significantly to the quality of reunion with
her multi-year program focusing on intergenerational conversations. These
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at times - because Kaffie was
so good at getting people to be so incredibly honest….. She was a sensitive
moderator and made the experience memorable for all who participated. I
especially liked to hear from alumnae from the 30’s and 40’s and how they
overcame adversity that would make most women my age and younger just crumble.
But sometimes you could tell that a younger alumna had just as important
a story to tell – about overcoming a devastating medical diagnosis or traumatic
divorce and Kaffie would lead them through it. Most of us ended up in tears
at the end of these things, but it was wonderful.”
Kaffie received her Master
of Science degree in Community Counseling in 1986 and launched a successful
10-year career as a licensed professional counselor, focusing her work
on female clients. Working with many women around issues of self-esteem,
Kaffie wanted to find a way to insure that today’s young girls were not
in therapists’ offices as women. Through her experience in her own
private therapy practice, in which she saw a number of middle school age
clients, Kaffie identified that age as the pivotal time when the decline
in self-esteem began. Drawing on experience gained volunteering in a week-long
outdoor leadership camp for young girls at Wells, Kaffie founded the not-for-profit
organization, Girls’ Opportunities for Adventure and Leadership (GOAL).
Started as a week-long summer camp, GOAL now offers numerous programs for,
primarily, girls in grades 6 through 9. The mission of GOAL is to promote
self-esteem, self-awareness and a respect for individual differences in
girls and young women, resulting in an enhanced capacity for leadership.
Kaffie had a vision, but
knew nothing about starting a new organization. So she educated herself,
networking with many community leaders, teachers, mothers and girls themselves.
She made inroads with educators, health care professionals, advocates for
girls, local politicians, women’s professional groups and area university
researchers. Kaffie learned that the organization she was envisioning would
have to be a non-profit, would have to have a board, would have to have
seed money, etc. She knew none of this, but every step of the way she listened
to people, learned from them, and took the next step. All along her journey,
people she met were impressed by the fact that when Kaffie saw this need
and decided to go about meeting it, she simply went for it. They were amazed
at the speed with which Kaffie went from envisioning GOAL to making it
happen.
A GOAL board member told
us “I’ve come to believe that Kaffie is the most remarkable woman I have
ever met. She has a tremendous amount of integrity, compassion, insight
and determination. And she employed all of these as she took a dream, formed
a vision and sought every avenue to help bring that vision to life.”
Another early supporter of
Kaffie’s wrote “I could write a detailed excerpt of the process that Kaffie
took to succeed with GOAL, but that’s not what Kaffie is about. She’s incredibly
humble about her part in establishing GOAL. What’s amazing is not that
she started a successful program for girls; it’s that she challenged herself
and those of us on this path with her, to become better women. Kaffie invites
all women to accept the responsibility for raising and mentoring girls
to their full potential. Kaffie with humility, humor and warmth and a strong
sense of determination taught us that we can make a difference.”
When it was decided that
GOAL would offer backpacking experiences to girls, Kaffie felt she, herself,
first needed wilderness training. She obtained a scholarship, and, for
an entire month, this 55-year-old woman wilderness camped and hiked in
the southwest with a much younger group of men and women, in extremely
strenuous terrain. It was a “no impact on the environment” trip, so everyone
carried the barest of equipment and comforts. To prepare, Kaffie
hiked her neighborhood with a loaded backpack. It was the most grueling
experience of her life, but she felt strongly that she needed to learn
both what the girls would be experiencing and how to keep them safe.
In addition to their signature
summer camps, GOAL has offered numerous other programs including team-building
workshops with school athletic teams, a Women Author Series, half-day workshops
for teachers and youth workers, wilderness backpacking weeks, Mother/Daughter
Weekends focused on communication and conflict resolution, and many more.
And the impact of GOAL on young girls’ lives has been invaluable.
One camper wrote:
“I was 11 years old when
I started attending GOAL. I didn’t know what to expect; I had never been
to a sleep away camp before. A week later, as my Mom and Dad were driving
me home……I was overwhelmed with conflicting emotions……. I didn’t want to
leave GOAL. That past week had changed me in a way I never thought possible.
I went back the next year and the years after that … because GOAL had grown
to be a part of me. Without it, I wouldn’t be the person I am today: a
girl who is not afraid to speak her mind, stand up for what she believes
in and is more aware and proud of herself and the gifts she possesses than
ever before. The people, atmosphere and activities (of GOAL camp) helped
me realize that I am as good as I want myself to be, no matter what other
people say or do. The activities, and modules, the free time, the journal
writing, the closing ceremony, “improv”, and the ropes course have all
had an impact on me and my growth and development. GOAL helped me become
me, and I am so incredibly thankful for the role it played in my life.
GOAL is a spirit lifting, self esteem building, awareness building, fantastic
experience. The fun I had there is immeasurable and I will carry my GOAL
experiences with me for the rest of my life.”
And Kaffie’s work continues
- not only with GOAL today, but as a speaker, resource and advisor for
other groups in the Atlanta community also working on programs for girls
and young women. Over the last year, Kaffie has been working with a group
of individuals who are developing a consortium of nonprofit consultants
to support new groups and organizations that are preparing to move to the
next stage of their development.
In addition to her entrepreneurial
successes, Kaffie has been a mentor to many women. She provided an internship
at GOAL for Jinzhou “Lulu” Zhao ’02, who had only been in this country
two years when she went to work with Kaffie. Lulu told us “Kaffie to me
is not simply a businesswoman or entrepreneur, but more importantly, she’s
a friend, a teacher and a mentor. I worked independently under the direct
supervision of Kaffie and learned from the best. I was fortunate to see
how a business grew from its very foundation, and even more fortunate to
meet and work with Kaffie. Kaffie was very hard working and focused. She
taught me first-hand what strength and persistence are; she taught me how
to grow to be a confident woman. Kaffie is a person with strength, energy
and integrity. Knowing her and being able to work with her was an honor
and an inspiring experience.”
Click
here to read Kaffie's Acceptance Address.
Last updated 04/05/07
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